post-show photo from this week’s Debauchery. costume and choreo miraculously came together at 5am day of the show. kicked ass. broke hearts. it was an intensely emotional performance for me but in the best way.
DO NOT reblog on bbw fetish or porn blogs. i will hunt you down and eat your liver like the nonbinary gumiho that i am.
DO NOT reblog if you’re going to be an asshole and misgender me. i will deduct 100 points from your house.
yesterday I wore the brightest outfit evar to a public beach and then proceeded to fattt it up in a slutty mankini (with other fatties). The gift that nolose has given me is one of renewed courage re: the boring masses who are judging/threatened by my fat gq body. Often I feel a heavy gaze on my body in public space, but I try to remember that it is part of the double bind we face as fatties. 1) we aren’t supposed to be fat and if we are, we are supposed to be ashamed of our fat 2) even though we aren’t supposed to be fat, we also shouldn’t move our bodies on our own terms in public space or we are opening ourselves to various forms of fetishization, objectification and violence. I’m so fucking tired of people treating me like I need to hide. As a white person, this aspect of visibility/erasure/sublimation is just a small part of the transformation I hope to support/encourage/facilitate within body politics movements - but finding ways to subvert the violence I experience feels very powerful for me personally and has been something I have had to foster over time.
On International Femme Appreciation Day I’m thinking of the power of Femme Femme Love and the healing its given me. I’m thinking of how lucky I am to bear witness to Fleetwood’s gender in all its complicated and sleazy incarnations. I’m thinking of and sending all my love to my fellow femmes out there feeling disenfranchised, pathologized, invisible and tired. Y’all are the most precious jewels and such a source of strength wisdom and inspiration for me every damn day. Y’all are my lifeblood #femmes #femmes4femmes #internationalfemmeappreciationday - tangledupinlace
⚡💄💕With a pinch of rock and a dose of roll I can warm you up if you get too cold. I can bring you up when you’re going down I can smash your head all over this town💕💄⚡#thunderthighs #fatfemme #genderqueer #queensofnoise #femme